about our need to hole out.
Since all our feelings are interior and matters to us individually. They should be observed.
If our feelings have impact, it means that there is a war going on inside us. Others may have set it off, but what is set off, is my own business only.
Anything that can burn inside me should burn. Only what is left fireproof is worth keeping in me.
If my feelings are hurt they are better off hurt because all affect is inside of me and they need to be understood as that, and dealt with in an inside way by myself only.
If it is to much for me, i need someone else’s help to hold it for me so that i can come to understand what it is. I really need to hole out for periods now and then.
It is the only way for me to find out what i am transferring over to others, and letting them carry on my behalf. I just dont feel good at all about others doing this for me.
I think its a learningprocess about reading life instead of books.