We all make experiences through mental reflection. By meditating on them and trying to come to terms with our psychic life. And trying to find some kind of agreement that provides a balance between the different parts that operate both within and outside of us through others. In one way the psychic experiences in themselves, in another over how we or others try to describe and relate to them. But in themselves, what we experience still originally comes from the same psychic source. Regardless of our opinions or how we want to look at them. What then becomes obvious is that when we are still children, it is others who teach us and condition how we should relate to these experiences. How we should describe them and how we should act based on their impact on us. If we do not allow ourselves the psychic reflection that comes with the inner maturity that our self-observation creates in relation to them, we will continue to let others describe how we should formulate and process our own experiences. They then do not become personal based on the fact that it is we who have tried to come to terms with them and meditatively reflect on their relationship to us in our lives. We have just continued to leave it to others to condition this for us. From a meditative point of view, we are still children in relation to our psychic life, and our immature nescience and ignorance anaesthetize our mind and makes us inaccessible to the meditative space where we communicate with our self-perceived and observable psychic experiences of the reality it is to be human. Strangely enough, it is most often those who fiercley deny and try to undermine or destroy this within us that make most of us choose to let them lead us.