We may not feel it, but there is a markedly higher order that generates its own purpose behind everything. Otherwise there would be no context. Just instincts. So then there is this container that contains all of life’s potential forms and possibilities. One of them is the potential we call our being. The one we mature with, along with what makes us grow inside. I think it’s the one we all see in each other. Which makes us feel that we have something in common. That something, is triggered by things that corresponds to its own inner order. It’s like what Mandelbrot found out mathematically. There is an underlying pattern that repeats itself infinitely. When it has been repeated long enough, a pattern emerges within us. This is the higher order in all that is. All our whims and ”ideas” are a result of this. But for most people, it’s just a lot of contradictions. For them, there will never be any respect for how this mental activity affects them. They will always stay in the land of contradictions and fight against windmills and constantly remind us how awful it is there. But what if our part in this, in our lives, was about supporting each other in the ability to keep the feeling of this whole alive within us? This is something I have slowly begun to understand, that by recognizing it in others, and by listening to it, I can also see it more clearly in myself.