A mother who sacrifices her femininity for motherhood teaches her children that there is a mother in the inner parent couple who embodies the experience we have of our mental body, in its sense of a fundamental belonging, as being a physical part of the earth, and the power that comes from that relationship as a personal reality of the world as mind, and the mother in the woman. A father who does not sacrifice himself for the fatherhood disconnects his children from the whole which is both a source and an origin, a conscious discernment of the content the energy and raw power that masculinity conveys beyond the ego in an undifferentiated form of acting meaning in all of us. He does not teach his children that there is a fatherfigure within the inner parent couple that mediates the experience of the underlying psychic structure we are a part of within that which is the intersubjectivity of our temporal reality, and a father figure in every man. We become confused and disoriented within ourselves, and we seem to have no connection or nothing to do with the outside world with which we interact in our psychic reflection. Our inner parental figures are the ones who teach us about our belonging to each other and to nature, which in our outer life is the relationship we have to our inner reality. That’s why Maderattje and Madderakka and whatever their likes are in people around us are so important. We just know when they are missing. People become disconnected from Nature, extremely vulnerable, self-absorbed, heartless, insensitive and authoritarian, and victims of the confusion that arises in the dynamics between the parental couple they carry within themselves. Something we then will confuse with others and the world.