If you come from an environment where the integrity of the communication you have between you and yourself has not been distorted due to the need of those around us to be acknowledged for what they like about themselves. Or that they have a compulsive need to hide their own lack of relation between them and themselves, which causes them to devalue it in others, and your own meaning is set in direct relation to the nature you are profoundly related to so that your values comes from this point of view. As we grow up and are placed in a larger impersonal context it makes it terribly confusing not to be encouraged to continue to rely on our own connection to this self-organising whole anymore. Neither from within us nor outside of us in that which is both at the same time. Suddenly we just have to see ourselves based on a context independent of our relationship between us and ourselves and in detached opinions and impersonal notions. The social and cultural values that our previous relationships rested on no longer hold the same meaning and we are often left to fend for ourselves. Despite the mental confusion that arises and which we have to live with for a long time. There are few around us who have the ability to support us in this transition and give us the navigational help we need without us losing touch with ourselves. Without a safe environment for the relationship we have with our selves, with our ability to communicate with our inner center’s self-ordering and embracing reflective principle, it is impossible to find a way to relate to each other on a human level. In a direct embodiment of that relationship between us where we can turn to each other’s authenticity and integrity on an interpersonal level. Our world is a direct reflection of what this relationship looks like today.