When we do not have an understanding of the cultural aspects of our primeval parent pair, Máttaráhkká and Máderáhttje, and their psychic functionality as social vessels within us, we will constantly correct others, become argumentative, pejorative and idealistic. From the outside it looks like we lack a common social approach to where we can share that relationship between them and our inner person, and in their connection to our nature’s self-organizing inner voice that guides us and gives us the knowledge we need to absorb. Instead, we often believe that our own personal relationship to the self-organizing inner person that coordinates our own unique biographical material is identical to that of others. And works in the same way in someone else’s personal relationship as they do for us. Regardless of the differences between our personal experiencess, as if there is no difference between them at all. This will of course be perceived as both provocative and insensitive. While it is also an abuse of those who experience it in what is each person’s interaction with his own set of psychic events. It will be perceived as an attempt to override another person’s relationship to their inner person, since we are rejecting how it organizes that person’s experiences in that relationship. In such a situation, we will perceive it as if it is our relationship between us and ourselves that is rejected. As if it should not be taken seriously, and as if there is something in our personal context in that relationship that we should consider questionable within ourselves. Almost all conflicts that arise in our close relationships are also of the same kind as those in the world around us, because it is something that arises from the conflict that we carry within us when Máttaráhkká and Máderáhttje are not experienced as cultural vehicles for our psychic experiences. In between us and in ourselves. But since we don’t identify it there, we confuse our inner connection to ourselves with that of others and try to control it there, in their place.