Being infantile means not acknowledging the psychic content we can only acquire through experience. This means that we have a relationship to an invisible, experiential content, which we use to describe intentions produced by a spontaneous background content that affects how we relate to ourselves, and our surroundings. If we do not actively participate in the knowledge that our experiences convey, we cannot see it within ourselves, or in others. Instead we replace our nature, or luonto with rational concepts and terms that lack that background knowledge. This will then control the abstract imagined reality that we use to replace any kind of genuine human relationships we have with each other. Other people’s well-being and integrity are not something that will be taken into account. Rules and regulations, ideas and formalised behaviors, all that is generally accepted and recognized as a sense of duty, may instead replace human considerations. They also become fiercely defended. We relate to them instead of to each other and our own and others’ immediate reality. We then lose our personal considerations. Our sensitivity to each other and sincere consideration that everything in the whole that surrounds us is personally experienced. Our reality becomes completely abstract and everything that opposes it in the form of other people’s experiences or the physical presence of the world becomes its opponent. We are no longer a part of it. Our undeveloped psychic beingness excludes us from it. We remain unaware of our psychic life in a contradictory world that we create for ourselves outside the whole of which it is a part. We constantly create tensions that can only be resolved through sacrifice. So we blame our own lack of human consideration on others, on those who do not live up to our needs for control in our ideal abstract world where no real life can exist.
Obviously, one really has some serious work to do.