Maybe our attention to the relation between us and our self, and its integrity, informs our inner koncentrical center of the value its direction have to us, in that the objective psyche as a whole relates to what it is that is constituted by it within us in a way that we as individuals cannot, thus saving us from endless cycles of repetitive repercussions and pain for ourselves and others.
We observe ourselves and others simultaneously from a different perspective that simultaneously formulates everything in it as if we were participants in the same objective psychic background at the same time, and with the same intensity in the interactive patterns they create. It becomes a kind of constant communication with the underlying psychic current and the social influence it has on our personal and cultural life. But related to and formulated in every person as our own connection to how our experiences are constellated when it interacts with us. It’s not about whether we prefer one over the other, as it’s more about our ego and its place between our conscious attention and our psychic reflection when it acts as an intermediary to them, perpetually oscillating back and forth between them through many different layers of our objective psyche. Which we have to formulate for ourselves, and on our own. Because no one else can come between us and ourselves and the objective patterns we formulate through our personal experiences of them in our lives. Doing the right thing in our lives is not the same as forcing myself between someone else and their psychic reflection with my own communication between you and how you have formulated your relationship to our objective psyche. It’s about doing the right thing regardless of how my version of our inner source formulates my union of our psychic opposites to me personally. Having this perspective is very confusing and when I was growing up it was not openly expressed as something that connects us to our inner reality. And the feeling of emptiness it required of me in my relationships with my surroundings almost drove me crazy at times. To almost never have a feeling of a direct connection to this with others but only to nature. The general approach to our experiences and our objective psychic background, to how this connects us to what is happening around us would simply not be put together with our inner context. Out of pure self-preservation, I did manage to find different ways of my own where this could still somehow be a hidden connection to this within me, and do as others did, but not in the order they did it. It would have put me under far too much strain.