Very few people today have a developed language for our mental life and therefore do not know how to express it. Using old expressions used in religious contexts without a connection to real experiences does not help because they do not refer to our every day experiences, to our interpersonal social and cultural lives. Academic concepts, facts, and terms do not help us either, because they try to create a permanence in relation to our consciousness that it does not have in itself. They just become empty labels, headlines and perceptions that does not describe our deeper experiences in any way. If we do not develop a language for its experiential content or obtain it from an environment that can convey it, we become stranded within ourselves, drifting aimlessly in our minds, without access to that within us that we need to be able to maintain a conscious approach to the function that our mental balance gives us in our self-observation when we are confronted with our absolutely basic mental parts, without confusing them with others. But instead observe it, and our reactions to its origins, to that which created their states and its processes within us in the first place. One look at our world tells us something about what it means if we have not developed it.