All my relationships are really relationships of a personal nature. What I relate to is a relationship to what only exists based on a psychically experienced totality, to what we are as such. Everything in this totality, in this sense, becomes metaphorically perceived underlying personalities, because in a strictly externalized physical sense we are not really connected. We experience each other through our being, not with our outer senses. In the same way as we do with our dog, with our horse, the wind, with nature as it is experienced in relation to how it affects us. With who we are in relation to that. We experience the world as part of an embodied totality. Therefore, we can also agree that the wind, like the horse, places in themselves and the nature that surrounds us have personal qualities that we relate to as personalities. Like we do with our neighbors. The trees around us, our children and our ancestors. It does not exclude the world as an objective phenomenon, the reciprocity we develop with it reinforces it as a human relationship. What makes us look stupid is our vanity when we try to control the opposites we have within ourselves through others, because it is about trusting our own relationships to this totality. Without it, we cannot trust anything. So we try to control our uncertainty in the shape of objective reality. If we lose our connection to the experience of this totality, we also lose our ability to relate to each other on a personal level. We become physical objects foreign to what we are within us, and to how we relate to everything else around us.