Without an ongoing and present relationship with our inner family, the Sáivu family, we risk falling into biased emotional states of co-dependence in other people’s relationships with them. Instead of being our own psychic vessel for them, we create them for others. We begin to regulate, direct and control how their mutual relationships should look and interact with others. It is no longer up to their inner source to spontaneously inspire, spiritualize and create psyche, based on their own inner conditions. We are only trying to get our own needs met and replenish our self-worth from external sources. Which takes us away from our inner family, and creates a sense of alienation and inner confusion that further distances us from our psychic reflection and concern for our own inner person in its relation to our inner family and to the original couple they are an extension of beyond them. We transfer our too undeveloped, young and vulnerable not yet psychologically mature relationships with them to those of others as a container for our own. Where we then create chaos both in our own and others’ inner families and in the vessel that makes up our own and others’ relationships. From this perspective, this is the world as psyche, our common interior in most of our leadership and relationships today.