Being impulsive is not having a kind of individuality. Nor to take up a position in an ideal way against others being so. Or to believe that others are the reason for our own lack of self-control in the sense that we do not have a relationship with our impulses and in how we reflect their influence and independence on us. Or acknowledge how they articulate our psychic content. Our inner person in relation to our psychic influences is in a more fragile state to us than we dare admit to ourselves. Where we mostly blame others for what we are exposed to within ourselves. We are really in an undeveloped relationship with our inner person in its relationship with this content. And it doesn’t look like it’s getting any better.