We have a confused way of relating to our fathers and mothers. Mostly in a condescending way in the sense of being naive, or mentally undeveloped adults if we relate to their influence on us in adulthood. Or if we cherish sincere and warm sympathetic relationships. We may even ignore them completely as the important inner mediators to our inner nature and its inherent self-organizing balance they are as order to us in a collective social and cultural sense. As the human psychosocial relationships that they are, in this sense there is also something missing in them. Their influence on us mediates a coherent experience of the environment we are a part of and an individual ability to express our inner wholeness in a sense of genuine belonging to it in a larger sense. Without being conscious of the influence of our inner father and mother upon us, of Máderáhttje and Máttaráhkká, our culture and our relationship to the nature we are part of has no psychic substance or inner balance. Instead, they become literalized in “things” and ideas. Reality becomes ideas of them in a literalized way. We lose our relationship to each other and to the nature around us as a place between us and ourselves. What is it that says men can’t relate to other men in the same way we relate to women. With varmth and psychic participation as in a relationship between us and ourselves in others too. With our psychic intellect. A patriarcal onesidedness is something that will shape our view of ourselves early on in our society. Even more so when the matriarchal side as in Máttaráhkká becomes almost completely absent. We become relationshipless and destructive in our confused relationship with ourselves and others. To how our inner being should be able to exist and express itself in a larger community.