our inner order has a background structure of its own

It is quite obvious when we talk to people around us that we are also able to experience the relationship of them between them and their inner ordering center, but not only that, we also percieve the distortion that is there as the relationship we have between the person within us and the communion we share to it with all other human beings in our own way. When it brings together our experiential impressions to the ego, and they are then ordered according to our set of psychic properties of the overall psychic structure within us, these parts work together in relation to its self-organizing center, and this is what we share with everyone through the source which unites all opposites. We cannot be that for someone else however much we perceive this communion and the inner work we have to put into it of our own psychic reflection, apart from what it constantly requires of us in our relationship with people close to us. It is also our connection to a sense of a wholeness of the other within ourselves, and a relationship to the content of what we share of it with others, as when it is disturbed or interrupted by people around us, instead of supported with their own, that disconnect us and gives us a bad conscience, even deep anxieties, when we try to reconnect with it. The alienation we feel and perceive here in others is our own relationship to it. Our conflict with its opposites. It opens us up to our own vulnerable experience of it. In this way we also transfer the dissonance that others experience when the connection to this center is broken or distorted and they orbit around themselves in its opposites. We see, feel and perceive it as if they were our own. But we can only do something about it by providing for our own, and by our way also show that they have their own, by pointing to it, to the same inner source and sense of embodied wholeness and communion with all people and all nature it is, in an experiental sense. The larger ordering center we share is there, and we are all connected to it in our own way with our own psychic properties, and the interpretations we make on our own of the qualities of that experiences.